Last night, I was driving home after spending a beautiful evening with three special ladies, all of whom received a reading from someone incredibly special in the Spirit world.
The love in the room was incredible. Truly incredible.
The messages of reassurance, validation, memories, and confirmation that their loved one is still very much with them was mesmerizing to witness. There is something so sacred for me about watching someone’s heart soften, tears that release from their eyes, and the smiles and laughter when they recognize their loved ones personality come through. But mainly when they realize that their loved one is so close still.
But what really stayed with me afterward were the conversations that flowed once the readings were done. The questions, curiosity and wanting to understand more.
And honestly, I love that part so much.
The beauty of conversation
Because beneath almost every question is something so tender. Most people simply want to know…are my loved ones okay? Are they still near me? What do they think of me now? Can they still see us? Do they still come around?
Precious, important and deeply raw questions.
On the way home last night, I was overwhelmed with love. That is honestly how Spirit rewards me for this work: with love. So much love. I drove home feeling peaceful, full of love and most of all, full of hope.

And I know my girl is with me too. That alone is enough to fill my heart.
So it made me think…maybe I should start writing about the questions.
So here we go.
One of the questions I was asked was this:
“If my loved one comes on a trip with me, can they also still be with family members back home?”
And my answer is, yes. Absolutely.
Our human experience
We are currently living in human form, having a human experience. When we are born, we come into this world with a soul that originated in the Spirit world, and when our physical body dies, our soul returns there. Perhaps a little bruised and weathered from this wild human ride, but still very much alive in Spirit.
It is in the human experience that we live within limitations. We think in terms of time, places, distance and physical presence because that is what we understand here. We can only physically stand in one place at a time.
But Spirit is not confined in the same way.
The Spirit world is not limited by clocks, miles, countries or plane rides. It is expansive beyond what our human minds can fully grasp.
I often think about dreams when trying to explain this. In dreams, we can instantly be somewhere else. One moment we are standing in one place, and the next we are somewhere entirely different without needing roads, time or travel. Consciousness itself is expansive.
Spirit feels very much like that to me.
So yes, our loved ones can absolutely travel with us across the world while also being present around family back home. Love is not divided in Spirit. It simply continues and expands.
That is part of the beauty of the Spirit world. There are no true confines or limitations there the way there are here.
There, there is freedom, connection, presence and love.
They are with us, experiencing it all with us, trying to let us know and really, really, really wanting us to keep living and experiencing. Because they are closer than you realize.
Follow along because I am going to begin answering some of the questions I get asked most often and writing about them here.
And please, feel free to ask me questions. If I can answer them in a way that brings comfort, understanding or even a little hope, I would love to share.
